Some of you may have wondered
why I do what I do, day in and day out, i.e. why I write these devotions, and why
I talk so much about walking in the Spirit and not walking according the flesh.
You may have wondered, too, why I am so passionate and so persistent in getting
out the true message of the gospel, not so much to the world, but to the
church, i.e. to those who profess Christ Jesus as Lord and as Savior of their
lives.
Well, first and foremost I do
this because God called me to do this thirteen years ago. These past 11 years
he has led me to write what he teaches me daily from his Word. Each day he puts
a song in my head, and he leads me to a passage of scripture, which fits
perfectly with the song, and then he opens up his Word to my heart, and he
teaches me what he wants me to get from the passage, and what he wants me to
share with the world and with the church via the internet. And, so I obey him
in doing what he has called me to do.
But, that isn’t the only
reason I do this. The Lord has given me a lifetime of preparation for this
ministry through the things he has allowed me to experience in my own life so
that I would feel what he feels about sin, and so I would love what he loves
and hate what he hates. Through the things I went through, most of which was
not of my own making, but some of which was, I learned to see sin through God’s
eyes in a powerful way, and to also see, from his perspective, why he hates sin
so much, and that is because he loves us, and he hates what sin does to us – it
destroys us!
The Lord Jesus led me to read
Ephesians 4:17-24 (ESV).
Now this I say and testify in the Lord, that you must
no longer walk as the Gentiles do, in the futility of their minds. They are
darkened in their understanding, alienated from the life of God because of the
ignorance that is in them, due to their hardness of heart. They have become
callous and have given themselves up to sensuality, greedy to practice every
kind of impurity. Vv. 17-19
Since God called me to this
ministry, I have found myself identifying with Hosea of the Old Testament.
Hosea was a prophet of God. [I make no such claims to prophet status, although
I am the Lord’s servant.] God told Hosea to marry a harlot (a whore). But, it
was because God’s people had forsaken him, and they were living in spiritual
adultery against their Lord. Thus, since God had chosen Hosea to give out his
messages to these adulterous people, he wanted him to feel what God felt from
the depths of his own soul, and that is why he told Hosea to marry a whore.
Now, God did not tell me to
do that. But, unknowingly, I married a man who professed Christ as Savior of
his life but who was a sex addict. And, we have been married 45 years. He has
made this public now, and he states that he now wants to be delivered from
this, and thus he has given me permission to tell our story publicly, in hopes
that it might help others who are now in similar situations. As well, I believe
God is directing me in what I am sharing with you here, because he wants each
and every one of us to truly be free!
Sexual Abuse
I will state here that I had
been physically, emotionally and sexually abused by my father. The sexual and
the physical abuse stopped after I told our pastor, and only because my aunt
set up that appointment, because my father was beating my mother nearly to
death. My dad went into a mental hospital for 1.5 years, I think. But, no one
talked with us kids about what just happened or about what we had gone through,
and then they sent our father back home, and he tried it again, but I told my
mom, and it stopped.
But, that only angered my dad,
that he could not use me, and so the mental and emotional abuse only got worse.
[He was still abusing my mom, and trying to abuse me verbally, up to the day my
mom died in the year 2000.] But, I lived with my parents until the age of 22
and then I married my husband, thinking that he was different. I didn’t know. I
was clueless.
But, then stuff began to
happen, and I began to see that my husband really wasn’t all that different,
but I kept holding out hope that I was wrong. My husband was a very good actor,
and very convincing, and so I had a tendency to believe him when he said
something was an isolated incident and that it was over. But, then all that
changed.
Moral Failure
Thirty years ago we moved to
a small southern town. It was a closed community, i.e. if you weren’t from there,
they did not accept you. We had moved from a large city, with a wonderful (but
not perfect) church family and friends and neighbors, and now it seemed that we
were in a desert.
We made friends with a man
locally with whom we worked in a local volunteer organization. I was lonely and
hurting. My husband was traveling about half the time with his new job. I had
had a hysterectomy 8 years prior, and I was now going through an early
menopause and my emotions were going crazy. I was attracted to this man. I told
my husband, and I asked him for his help, so that I would not yield to that
temptation. Instead of helping me, though, he pushed me that direction. He
handed me over to the guy, and the inevitable happened, one time only.
I was so crushed that I had
succumbed to this temptation, but more so at the fact that my husband, the one
who was supposed to love and protect me, would push me to do that, and that he
had no conscience about it, but he used me to feed his own sexual addiction.
And, that devastated me!
I repented of my sin, and I
got back on the right path with God, and then we moved again, and at a weak
moment, my husband pushed me to sin again, to feed his sexual addiction, but
with no conscience whatsoever that what he was doing was wrong. This happened
several times over a period of about five years. And, all the while he claimed
to be a strong Christian, and was even a pastor of a church during part of
this. And, I succumbed to that temptation, too, and I sinned in this way, while
I was a Christian.
Grace and Mercy
But, then God, in his grace
and mercy, lifted me up out of that slimy pit and he set my feet on a rock and
he gave me a firm place to stand. Yet, it did happen one more time seven years
later, under similar circumstances, but this time I finally said “NO” to Satan,
and to my husband, and I said “YES” to God, and it has been “YES” ever since.
That was seventeen years ago.
But, now, not unlike my
father, my husband was angry with me that he could no longer get me to sin
sexually, and against God, and so he took his anger out on me verbally, as he
continued on his path of sexual addiction. But, the closer I got to my Lord,
and the more serious I became about purity, righteousness and holiness, in all
aspects of my life, the more that angered my husband, and the persecution began
big time. And, I am not certain, yet, that it has stopped or that he has truly
repented. Time will tell.
But that is not the way you learned Christ! — assuming
that you have heard about him and were taught in him, as the truth is in Jesus,
to put off your old self, which belongs to your former manner of life and is
corrupt through deceitful desires, and to be renewed in the spirit of your
minds, and to put on the new self, created after the likeness of God in true
righteousness and holiness. Vv. 20-24
This is ABSOLUTE TRUTH! This,
what I described above, is not the way we learned Christ, at least, I certainly
hope not! The truth that is in Christ Jesus is that Jesus set us free from
slavery (addiction) to sin, that Satan no longer has power over us, and that
God has all the power we need to live godly and holy lives, pleasing to him. We
don’t ever have to give in to sin. Jesus already won this battle for us with
his blood shed on a cross for our sins.
Addiction to what is sinful
is just another word for slavery to sin. And, it is not a sickness. We can stop
it in the power of the Holy Spirit, and we can say “NO” to ungodliness and worldly
passions (lusts) and live self-controlled, upright and godly lives. We just
have to take the way out which God provided for us, through the cross of Christ
actualized in our lives.
We have to deny self and die
to sin daily, by the Spirit, and walk according to the Spirit so that we do not
gratify the sinful cravings of our flesh. We can’t do it, but God can, in and
through us, if we are yielded to him, and if we will put on our spiritual armor
and live like Jesus truly did set us free!
Living Water
An Original Work / November
21, 2013
Based off Various Scriptures
My people have forsaken Me,
Their Savior, who died on a
tree;
Made idols, and they
worshipped them;
So empty, they will ne’er
fulfill.
Lord, You are the hope of
Your chosen ones.
Those who turn away from You
will be shamed;
The Spring of Living Water
left behind.
Living Water satisfies.
The thirsty, let them come
and drink;
Believe in Jesus as their
King;
The gift of Jesus given them,
So they will never thirst
again.
Indeed, the Living Water
flows within.
It springs up like a fountain
cleansing sin.
Eternal life in heaven
promised them.
Living Water glorifies.
Oh people, won’t you come to
Him?
Obey Him and repent of sin.
Let Jesus come and live
within.
Surrender all your life to
Him.
My people, won’t you turn
your hearts to Me?
Forsake your idols and then
you’ll be free.
Won’t you come now to Me on
bended knee?
Living Water sanctifies.
Saturday, December 16, 2017,
4:28 p.m. – Thank you, Jesus, for delivering me out of that pit, and for
helping me to say “NO” to sin and “YES” to Jesus.
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